Tuesday, August 18, 2009

I never imagined...

...that fourteen years later




we'd have five daughters and zero sons.


That we'd be living in Utah.


I certainly never imagined we'd own a dog! (Or that I would feel the tiniest bit fond of it.)


I'm sure I never imagined that we'd be spending our fourteenth wedding anniversary mostly apart, pushing through the daily grind. Spending the evening running girls to four separate Back-To-School functions, and soccer practices, and teaching nearly a dozen Webelos about Nature.


Did I imagine B.L.T.'s on the menu for a romantic fourteenth anniversary dinner?




When I decided to marry Doug, it sort of surprised me to realize that I didn't need a big, extraordinary, flash-of-lightning style revelation to convince me that he was the one for me. I just felt comfortable with him and confident about him from the very beginning. Consistently comfortable. That's us.




So when our fourteenth anniversary comes along on a busy Tuesday, I don't need a spectacular, extraordinary night on the town to mark the occasion. I've had hundreds of dates with this guy, weekly (if not more often), for the past fourteen years of marriage. I'll take steady over spectacular, for sure.



Well, ok, I do like spectacular sometimes. I'm pretty stoked about our "anniversary trip" to NYC, coming up soon! :)



HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO US!

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Look what Hannah started...


After fixing Hannah's bangs, I got the itch, and decided to give Olivia's hair a little style.
*Don't remember what it looked like a few days ago? Scroll down two posts...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Isn't it enough, be-ink a blonde?

I bet only Doug will understand that title, but it popped into my head and I can't refuse. It fits so well. It's from "The Jazz Singer", when Neil Diamond's father wonders why his son has to keep chasing trouble, and rhetorically he asks his rebel son, "Isn't it enough, be-ink a Jew?"


All summer, Hannah has attracted comments about how blonde she has gotten. Her hair is so sun-bleached, and her skin is so tanned, and I must admit to my parental pride in this little cutie. I love her blonde hair. It is finer than most of her sisters' heads of thick hair, so I'm not very surprised to find some broken bits of Hannah's hair now and then, especially in the front where it gets pulled into elastics, etc.


But this afternoon, I noticed a lot of shorter pieces around her face. It almost looked like bangs...


Wait a second...


Yep, somebody has definitely been using scissors, here.


But how can I get mad at her when she says to me, "I just wanted to look like you, Mom. You always look so pretty."


Sneaky little manipulator!


And honestly, I'm impressed! She did a pretty darn good job! No strange, choppy chunks anywhere else. Just a carefully calculated cut resulting in actual bangs.
Mark my words, someday this little girl might just be styling my hair, and doing my make-up. She's got talent.

On Her Best Behavior

Olivia put on quite a show for her pediatrician today. During her 15-month check-up, she pulled cards out of my wallet to entertain herself, and said, "Mom! What's that?" (Actually, it sounded more like "Maam! Wazzat?") But to the doctor, it sounded like a complete sentence. And he surmised that she is quite advanced developmentally.





Who am I to argue with that?





Except, when we came home, and she pointed to the water dispenser and screamed really loud, I sure wished her scream sounded more like "Mother, may I please have another drink?"


"Does she climb on furniture?" asks the nurse. Uh, yeah.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Looking Back

Feeling nostalgic tonight.

For seven months now, people I meet here have been asking me if I miss my previous home, and (don't hate me for saying this, WA friends...) I've had to say no! I didn't miss it. Of course, I would explain, I miss people, but I wasn't missing that place.

But tonight, with Google maps, I find myself going back to the Northwest, and kind of wishing I could turn back time a year or so. It escaped me too quickly.

Maybe this sentimental mood was brought on by coming home from a little vacation today, and being greeted by cool temperatures and cloudy skies, and walking into a house that still feels (and even smells) somewhat unfamiliar.

I couldn't believe it when the thermometer told me it was only in the 70s outside. On an August afternoon?! Couldn't be!

When we pulled into the driveway, and I hopped out of the car, anxious to stretch my legs, I was unprepared to feel a chill in the air. My thoughts went something like this:
"Oh no! It's so cold! I had almost forgotten what cold weather feels like. I'm not ready for summer to end!... How can summer be over already? Am I ready for my kids to start a new school year? Our daily schedule is going to get so busy, with school, and homework, and soccer practices, and.... I can't believe it's going to be fall soon. I can't believe how fast my kids are growing up! Olivia is getting so big. Her first year is such a blur! Time is passing me by so fast!..."

I don't like the cold. Isn't it crazy that a cold afternoon sends me into a mental cycle that has me wishing to go back to a cold place?!

Friday, July 31, 2009

Circle of Life

This weekend, we'll be attending a baby's blessing (my cousin's new son), a child's baptism (my nephew), a 40th birthday bash (Doug's brother), and Doug's grandmother's funeral. If only we could squeeze in a wedding...

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Just One Day

If you were me, and you had just twenty four hours to spend in "The Big Apple", what would you do?

And if you were going to buy tickets to just one Broadway show, which show would you see?

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Garden Variety

On the right we have a grape tomato that grew in my garden.
And on the left...I guess you'd call that a "tomato grape"...? (It didn't grow in my garden. It just came in my Costco cluster.)



By the way, speaking of produce, if you're wondering what to do with those giant zucchinis, here's an idea: hand weights. That was my inspiration this morning. I can't really try it myself, because my hands are busy holding a leash and a poop bag. (Positive Mental Attitude: Having a dog gets me out exercising daily!) But we passed another walker who took her zucchini-lifting-power-walking very seriously.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Don't let me forget...

...how I love waking up Olivia on these late summer mornings,



watching her pucker her lips and stretch,



stand up, rub the sleep from her face,


and point to her closet, and say,

"Shoes!"


P.S. In case you are curious about this, I do not generally believe in waking a sleeping baby. But Olivia sleeps in til 9:00 these days, whereas my other girls were all early risers at this age. I just miss her, and have to go check on her by the time it's past 8:30 or so. And if I open her door, she usually pops open her eyes, and is ready to hop out of bed. It will be interesting to see how hard it is to get us all back on the school schedule next month!
P.P.S. Isn't that the cutest little bed head you've ever seen? ;)

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Two Wheels

We like to bike.

When we lived in Washington, it was one of the most enjoyable family activities on a beautiful warm day: a family bike ride through the trees, with frequent stops for wild blackberries.

When we moved back here, everything was closer and more convenient to us: school, church, friends, library. And there were also more sunshiny days. So we've done more bike riding. In fact, sometimes I laugh at my neighbors (and even sometimes myself) for starting up the car just to go a couple of blocks in beautiful weather. I guess it's all about saving a little bit of time.

Anyway, Doug's two brothers who live nearby have taken up cycling as a hobby, and they have encouraged Doug to join them. So he recently bought his first road bike (in his first eBay transaction ever) and some equipment (including stretchy, padded shorts and a bright orange jersey--it's pretty hot!), and he has started biking to work. It's still only about half the time he spent commuting in Washington, and he's getting great exercise.

As impressed as I am with Doug, though, Hannah has really blown us away with her determination to join the biking fun.

A few weeks ago, Hannah announced to me that she needed to learn to ride a two-wheeler. At the time, she was riding a "big wheels" sort of trike, or pushing herself along on her scooter. She had no bicycle. So we borrowed Lauren's, and Hannah started to ride. It didn't take long for her to get the hang of pedaling and balancing, but starting required a push from Mom or Dad, and stopping required something drastic: she'd either head for a patch of grass and tumble onto it like Jackie Chan, or she'd brace herself and crash into the curb, Mom or Dad's legs, or (if it was pick-up day) a neighbor's trash can.

{Insert funny video of Hannah crashing. I really need to learn how to upload video!}

Bystanders were shocked at Hannah's bravery. She'd pick herself up, dust herself off, and start all over again! Over, and over, and over!

But she eventually got tired of the bumps, scrapes, and crashes. And she started losing interest in riding a bike that was too big for her little legs. Not wanting to lose all the progress Hannah had made, I took her to WalMart and bought her the tiniest two-wheeler they had. Twelve-inch wheels. Hot pink, of course.

That was all it took. Thirty-nine bucks for mad skills on a mini bike. Within a day, Hannah was independently riding around the cul-de-sac. Pedaling as fast as her little legs can go (and a bike that small requires a lot of pedaling!).

One funny thing about Hannah is that she prefers riding barefoot. Last night we walked to a nearby park. We walked, but Hannah biked, barefoot. She brought her shoes with her, and put them on when we got to the grassy park. And when we headed home again, she removed her shoes and pedaled her way with bare feet.

Funny, awesome kid!